Dear parents:
Principal TIN shared with everyone an online post "Emotional Value", which is very inspiring. I wish that every family can use a growth mindset and positive language to create a harmonious family and have a sense of happiness.
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"Emotional Value"
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【What is emotional value? 】
My wife is cooking and the heat is over.
Husband said: It’s okay, it’s good for your stomach if it’s soft.
I have been feeling unwell for the past two days;
My wife cooked the vegetables and found that she forgot to steam the rice,
Husband said: It’s okay, I’ll buy steamed buns,
I just want to eat steamed buns.
My husband drove the car the wrong way,
My wife said: It’s okay,
Just the right place to see the scenery you have never seen before.
The clothes my wife bought for her husband are too fat,
Husband said: Wife, you really understand fashion,
This is popular now,
And you can wear it even if you gain weight in the future.
My wife is taking care of the baby at home and cannot go out to work,
Husband said: My wife is awesome,
You can take good care of your children,
You can also clean and take care of housework,
You have a wife at home,
I can rest assured!
While my husband was cleaning,
Accidentally broke a cup,
My wife said: Whose husband is this?
How can you be so capable inside and out?
Things are broken, so it’s safe to break them!
Husband is unemployed,
My wife said: It doesn’t matter,
Have been working for more than ten years,
I have never had a good rest,
Just take a break and adjust well,
Stay with the kids, stay with me,
After the adjustment, we will go out to find a job,
My husband is so good,
It will shine wherever it goes.
Yes, in fact, the so-called emotional value,
It is to see emotions and take care of them,
Then empathize
Seeing is understanding, caring is comforting,
Empathy is empathy.
We will understand one day,
Emotional value in marriage,
For married life,
How important!
We will eventually understand,
Have an emotionally stable partner,
How important it is!
When we are in trouble
He will find a solution as soon as possible,
Or comfort,
Instead of blaming and complaining;
In fact, many times,
The flight you can’t catch,
Forgot to pay the utility bill,
Uncooked rice, etc.
These are not enough to make us collapse and despair,
What really makes us despair is that
When faced with these problems that should be solved,
The people closest to you are criticizing you unkindly,
We hope to have someone,
When we encounter emergencies,
Stand up and protect us,
Say something to us gently but firmly,
It's okay, don't be afraid, I'll take care of it and so on!
Thinking of a very heart-wrenching sentence:
They are all trivial matters,
But the sesame seeds on the ground are enough to make people collapse.
In fact, for the lives of us ordinary people,
Daily life,
Just some trivial things,
But if we can provide emotional value,
Be able to respond when the other person is frustrated and has negative emotions
The other party can be less preoccupied,
Leave blame and blame,
Be more tolerant, immediate and comforting,
Give me more patience and warmth,
That trivial thing,
It will just pass by like this.
We can recall,
The reason for every quarrel with your partner,
Will you find:
It turns out that there are many points that cause quarrels,
Just a small mistake that is easily remedied.
So
Don’t always let your home be full of emotional infighting,
Remember:
Makes a fuss out of a molehill, but goes online,
Hold on to something and settle old scores,
This will only become the reason for your constant quarrels.
So, in married life,
Encountered a problem,
Just give each other a step down,
Life is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea,
Care less about each other, care less,
Be more understanding and tolerant,
Be more responsible and responsible,
You will find,
In fact, life is not so trivial;
It turned out that the family lived together,
Be accommodating and tolerant,
The days will be longer and the years will be more peaceful!
